{"id":13539,"date":"2020-11-30T04:37:16","date_gmt":"2020-11-30T10:37:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mypeacezone.com\/?p=13539"},"modified":"2020-11-30T04:37:20","modified_gmt":"2020-11-30T10:37:20","slug":"have-to-or-get-to-lists","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mypeacezone.com\/?p=13539","title":{"rendered":"Have to or Get to Lists"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>I am one to make to-do lists. They are a MUST for me. This last week, they included getting my home ready for the family coming in, getting the pantry and fridge stocked, my baking done, preparing, cooking and serving. I referred often to my lists and delighted as I checked each item off. Always, the most important item on my lists are my family photos. I am amazed that a great photo can come from an iPhone-timed-photo on a tripod, while vicariously positioning ourselves on uneven rock formations. I was pleased to accomplish every item on my lists \u2013 including my family photo seen here.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There are a lot of &#8220;have to&#8217;s&#8221; in my life. I have to pay bills. I have to respond to some emails, phone calls, and appointments. I have to exercise. I have to clean my home. I have to put gas in my car. But, even \u201chave to\u2019s\u201d can be turned to \u201cget to\u2019s\u201d if we look at them out of the mindset of blessings. A shift looks like this: \u201cI have to exercise,&#8221; or \u201cI get to workout or run through these beautiful autumn leaves in my neighborhood.\u201d Or, \u201cI have to pay bills today\u201d or, \u201cThank God, I get to pay these bills. They represent my home, my car, my new clothes, etc.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Instead of \u201cobligations\u201d, we can rethink it as a blessing: \u201cI get to\u201d! It\u2019s interesting to look at my &#8220;have to&#8221; list, and my &#8220;get to&#8221; list. Instead of the mindset \u2013 &#8220;I HAVE TO stay up late to write my blog and get up early to post it; I prefer to say it this way: &#8220;I GET TO stay up late to write my blog and get up early to post it because it fills me with unabashed passion as I seek God for &#8220;the word&#8221; that just might make the difference in someone&#8217;s day.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Then I wonder where does my time with God fall? Into the &#8220;have to&#8221; list or the &#8220;get to&#8221; list? I pray for God to create in me a &#8220;get to&#8221; holy desire to spend time with Him, worshipping Him and praising Him for all He means to me. I want it to be the item on my to-do list that becomes so non-negotiable that it comes before everything else in my life. I want my life to be filled with \u201cget to\u201d moments and not \u201chave to\u201d tasks because I can see them all through the lens of blessing and answered prayer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Aren&#8217;t we so grateful that we&#8217;re on God&#8217;s most precious &#8220;get to&#8221; relationship list? He considers us His most cherished and beloved of all treasures. Shouldn&#8217;t we be living like that?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are!&#8221;<br>1 John 3:1<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I am one to make to-do lists. They are a MUST for me. This last week, they included getting my home ready for the family coming in, getting the pantry and fridge stocked, my baking done, preparing, cooking and serving. I referred often to my lists and delighted as I checked each item off. 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