{"id":1402,"date":"2016-02-21T22:34:00","date_gmt":"2016-02-22T04:34:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mypeacezone.com\/secret-to-marriage-success\/"},"modified":"2019-02-18T10:05:48","modified_gmt":"2019-02-18T16:05:48","slug":"secret-to-marriage-success","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mypeacezone.com\/?p=1402","title":{"rendered":"Secret to Marriage Success"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\">\n<a href=\"https:\/\/3.bp.blogspot.com\/-k-LlN3EH0ww\/Vso7TRLTuxI\/AAAAAAAANuM\/psh0J5eKWxA\/s1600\/Refrigerator%2BNote.JPG\" imageanchor=\"1\" style=\"clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" height=\"397\" src=\"https:\/\/mypeacezone.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/RefrigeratorNote.jpg\" width=\"400\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<p>Day 21 in this Month of Love &#8212; Secret to Marriage Success<br \/>\nLast week I attended the funeral of a dear man who lived a full and blessed life. &nbsp;Just two months ago, he and his wife celebrated their 70th wedding anniversary. &nbsp;Now, that&#8217;s what I call &#8220;stick-to-it-tivness&#8221; and &#8220;only till death did they part&#8221;. <\/p>\n<p>What makes for a marriage that stands the test of time &#8212; through thick and thin, ups and downs, highs and lows, tough times and sweet times, smooth and rocky roads? &nbsp;I&#8217;d say listening to those whose marriages have lasted through it all is the first place to go for advice.<\/p>\n<p>A good friend of mine was meeting with some of his clients. &nbsp;He asked them &#8220;What is the secret to your 68 years of marriage?&#8221; &nbsp; The wife went to her refrigerator, removed this handwritten note from its magnet and gave it to my friend to read. &nbsp;This is what it said:<\/p>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\">\n<a href=\"https:\/\/3.bp.blogspot.com\/-9tfxwYOwSi0\/Vso7asMA_YI\/AAAAAAAANuQ\/oyXhlqNKudo\/s1600\/Change%2Bme%2Blord.JPG\" imageanchor=\"1\" style=\"clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" height=\"400\" src=\"https:\/\/mypeacezone.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/Changemelord.jpg\" width=\"344\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<p>&#8220;God grant me the serenity to accept the people that I cannot change, the courage to change the one I can \u2013 and the wisdom to know it\u2019s me.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Such wisdom, that if used in marriages and other relationships &#8212; the years, the love, the respect, the joys and the blessings would last a lifetime. <\/p>\n<p>Perhaps this little note could be the wisdom we need to create longevity for the relationships in our lives. &nbsp;I&#8217;m praying &#8220;Change ME, Lord!&#8221; &nbsp;How about you?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Day 21 in this Month of Love &#8212; Secret to Marriage Success Last week I attended the funeral of a dear man who lived a full and blessed life. &nbsp;Just two months ago, he and his wife celebrated their 70th wedding anniversary. &nbsp;Now, that&#8217;s what I call &#8220;stick-to-it-tivness&#8221; and &#8220;only till death did they part&#8221;.&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_coblocks_attr":"","_coblocks_dimensions":"","_coblocks_responsive_height":"","_coblocks_accordion_ie_support":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[8785,8609,8786,6238,8630,8787,8788,8789,8790,1828],"class_list":["post-1402","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-70th-wedding-anniversary","tag-change-me","tag-death-do-us-part","tag-god-grant-me-the-serenity","tag-highs-and-lows","tag-lord-change-me","tag-secret-to-marriage-success","tag-stood-the-test-of-time","tag-thick-and-thin","tag-ups-and-downs"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mypeacezone.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1402","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mypeacezone.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mypeacezone.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mypeacezone.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mypeacezone.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1402"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/mypeacezone.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1402\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4885,"href":"https:\/\/mypeacezone.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1402\/revisions\/4885"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mypeacezone.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1402"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mypeacezone.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1402"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mypeacezone.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1402"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}