{"id":504,"date":"2018-08-05T10:18:00","date_gmt":"2018-08-05T15:18:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mypeacezone.com\/it-doesnt-have-to-be-my-way\/"},"modified":"2019-02-18T10:14:48","modified_gmt":"2019-02-18T16:14:48","slug":"it-doesnt-have-to-be-my-way","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mypeacezone.com\/?p=504","title":{"rendered":"It Doesn’t Have to Be My Way"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Remember Frank Sinatra singing \u201cI did it my way\u201d? The song was about a man fondly looking back on a life lived on his own terms. But, is that the way WE want to live?<\/p>\n

I heard a talk where the speaker handed out empty toilet paper rolls to each of us to make her point. She asked: \u201cHave you ever had a dispute with your husband about the RIGHT way to hang a toilet paper roll? And, if you weren\u2019t in agreement, did you correct it each time that he\u2019d put it in different from the way you thought it should be? Did it frustrate you because it just wasn\u2019t right or it just wasn’t YOUR WAY? She said God had been speaking to her about having to have it HER WAY, so, on purpose, she has been leaving it the way her husband put it on. She realized \u201cIt doesn\u2019t have to be MY WAY all the time. She instructed us to write on our rolls\u2026. \u201cIt doesn\u2019t have to be MY WAY!\u201d<\/p>\n

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What a powerful object lesson! The point, well taken. It’s such an erroneous belief that OUR WAY is the best way of doing things and then insisting others agree with us. There are those who seem to have taken a life course called, \u201cHow to Be Absolutely Sure of Everything\u201d! And, honestly, in the light of eternity and what matters most, does it really matter? Wanting and insisting on getting our way is a set up for unhappiness and a lot of disagreements with others. We rationalize that THEY are the one that needs to change. <\/p>\n

It\u2019s part of our human nature to want to have our way. We all have a touch of the need to be right. We all have areas where we believe that we know better than others. As we learn to let go of the need to have it OUR WAY, the more energy we\u2019ll have to spend on things that REALLY ARE important.<\/p>\n

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It\u2019s time to ask ourselves, \u201cDo I want to be right or do I want to be happy? Do I want to get my way, or do I want to feel a closeness with others?\u201d Who wants to be a know-it-all, when there\u2019s only one KNOW-IT-ALL? He is Father God. Instead of singing Frank\u2019s \u201cI DID IT MY WAY\u201d, why not be singing\u2026. \u201cI did it God\u2019s way!\u201d And when we do it God’s way…..in humility and love…..it WILL BE His way….and the BEST WAY! But, just thought I’d add a photo of the RIGHT WAY of hanging toilet paper! <\/p>\n

“He has shown you, oh man, what is good; and what does the Lord require of you but to do justly and to love kindness, and to walk humbly with your God.” Micah 6:8 <\/p>\n

“Blessed is everyone who fears the Lord, who walks in HIS WAYS.” Psalm 128:1 <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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