{"id":590,"date":"2018-05-12T10:48:00","date_gmt":"2018-05-12T15:48:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mypeacezone.com\/its-pay-it-forward-and-pray-it-forward\/"},"modified":"2019-02-18T10:13:52","modified_gmt":"2019-02-18T16:13:52","slug":"its-pay-it-forward-and-pray-it-forward","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mypeacezone.com\/?p=590","title":{"rendered":"It\u2019s Pay-it-Forward AND Pray-it-Forward Time!"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Mentor \u2013 a trusted guide, coach, role model, counselor<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t know where or who I would be were it not for the mentors in my life from a very EARLY age. Since I was \u201cearly\u201d in getting married (at 17) and \u201cearly\u201d to have a baby (one year later at 18), I needed all the help I could get. I was so in love, but I was also so insecure and inexperienced when it came to every day challenges and struggles. Quite frankly, inexperienced in life\u2026.period. And, each challenge and struggle confirmed my ongoing mental monologue \u201cWhat in the world am I doing?\u201d <\/p>\n

I needed someone older, wiser, experienced and confident to help me navigate some of those never-ending challenges. Someone I could call and ask, “How do you do this?” or “Have you ever experienced that?” without being judged. God was so faithful to give me two strong women who paved the way for me to become a confident wife and mom. Those women were my mother and mother-in-law. How many times did I call them and ask about \u201cthis and that\u201d? Since I was the youngest of my friends to get married, I sure couldn\u2019t call those girls for advice. They didn’t understand breastfeeding or a baby’s high fever. My \u201cmoms\u201d were living, breathing gifts from God who were sent to a gal who desperately needed real-life answers and real-life prayer. They gave me both.<\/p>\n

Through the years, God was faithful to bring so many other wonderful and wiser Christian women who graciously mentored me. They led me by example. They shared valuable truths on how to be a dedicated wife, manage a career, the must-haves of mothering and most importantly \u2026 how to experience an authentic, personal relationship with the Lord.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s been my turn now for many years to pay it forward and pray it forward as I have mentored many younger women in my own circle of influence. Some women were older than me and I mentored them in their relationship with Jesus Christ. Some of those gals were searching for Mr. Happily-Ever-After. A few were transitioning from newlywed bliss to marriage-plus-career reality. And others needed sound advice on how to raise their kids while trying to stay sane. And, now, many are widows who need help navigating their life through singleness. Oh the lessons I learned in the process that I was able to share with them what NOT to do and what to do so they wouldn\u2019t make the same mistakes I did. <\/p>\n

In both seasons, being mentored and being a mentor, I\u2019ve learned so much from smart, hard-working, gracious and tenderhearted women, who, just like me, still need godly advice every now and then. What would happen if we embraced each season of life looking to mentor others with the same excitement and tenacity we\u2019d expect from a woman who mentored us? <\/p>\n

Mentoring is for each season of life. Maybe you\u2019ve been looking for a godly woman to come alongside you. Start with praying for your soon-to-be mentor. Even though you don\u2019t know her yet, God does. She may be older and wiser and she knows what it is to face life’s challenges. Then, be willing to mentor someone else. Your gifts and talents can be used to be a blessing to a woman who\u2019s also longing for a mentoring relationship. <\/p>\n

It\u2019s Mother\u2019s Day weekend and what better time to reflect upon those women who imparted life into you \u2013 via birthing you in the natural or the spiritual and the everyday course of life. Now\u2026go and pay it forward and pray it forward to some young girl, teenager or woman who needs a loving, caring and devoted mentor. Thank God for their good influence on you. Regardless of your age or stage in life, mentoring is always available to you!<\/p>\n

Hebrews 13:7 \u201cRemember your leaders, those who have spoken God\u2019s word to you. Think about the impact of their lives, and imitate their faith.\u201d<\/p>\n

1 Timothy 4:12 \u201cDon’t let anyone look down on you because you are young, but set an example for the believers in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith and in purity.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Mentor \u2013 a trusted guide, coach, role model, counselor I don\u2019t know where or who I would be were it not for the mentors in my life from a very EARLY age. Since I was \u201cearly\u201d in getting married (at 17) and \u201cearly\u201d to have a baby (one year later at 18), I needed all…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_coblocks_attr":"","_coblocks_dimensions":"","_coblocks_responsive_height":"","_coblocks_accordion_ie_support":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[2889,2890,2891,1717,2822,2892,2893,2894,2895,1090,2896,2897,2898,2266],"class_list":["post-590","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-1-timothy-412","tag-be-an-example","tag-christian-women","tag-coach","tag-counselor","tag-guide","tag-hebrews-137","tag-imitate-their-faith","tag-led-by-example","tag-mentor","tag-pay-it-forward","tag-pray-it-forward","tag-real-life-answers","tag-role-model"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mypeacezone.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/590","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mypeacezone.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mypeacezone.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mypeacezone.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mypeacezone.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=590"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/mypeacezone.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/590\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8124,"href":"https:\/\/mypeacezone.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/590\/revisions\/8124"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mypeacezone.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=590"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mypeacezone.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=590"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mypeacezone.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=590"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}