{"id":639,"date":"2018-03-24T10:45:00","date_gmt":"2018-03-24T15:45:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mypeacezone.com\/complain-and-remain-praise-and-be-raised\/"},"modified":"2019-02-18T10:13:16","modified_gmt":"2019-02-18T16:13:16","slug":"complain-and-remain-praise-and-be-raised","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mypeacezone.com\/?p=639","title":{"rendered":"Complain and Remain; Praise and Be Raised"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Complain and Remain; Praise and Be Raised
\nCOMPLAIN: to express dissatisfaction or annoyance about something; grumble, criticize, moan, find fault
\nPRAISE: compliment, commend, express admiration for, applaud, speak highly of, admire, gratitude<\/p>\n

Maybe you live with or know someone who seems to be an incessant COMPLAINER \u2013 they seem to always find something to complain about: the weather, the president, their next-door neighbor, their body aches and pains, their spouse, their children, their church. I back out of conversations as quickly as possible with those folks. They are certainly not my \u201cbesties\u201d. Then there are those who are incessant PRAISERS \u2013 they habitually have something to be grateful for, have sunny dispositions and always seem to find the good in everything. <\/p>\n

While there are plenty of folks we encounter each day who are filled with optimism, in spite of their negative situations, still there are plenty of \u201cDebbie Downers\u201d around. In case you don\u2019t know who \u201cDebbie Downer\u201d is \u2013 she\u2019s someone who frequently adds bad news and negative feelings to any conversation. She can be found everywhere. Her presence puts an abrupt end to the enthusiasm of others. She is critical of herself and others, and fails to see why people can be happy about anything when there is so much to worry about. Debbie Downer isn\u2019t just negative: she is a pessimist to the core. She can see the downside to anything and won\u2019t hesitate to mention it. She plans for the worse and even finds comfort in her negative mindset. Most Debbie Downers believe that they are only being realistic and everyone else is impractical and delusional. <\/p>\n

I know there are reasons why we have innate personalities and outlook mindsets. We are products of the environment we were raised in \u2013 our homes, schools, family values, our faith. I\u2019m so grateful that I was raised in a church-going, Bible-toting, song-singing and gratitude-lifting home. We were blessed, but not with material wealth. I was raised having a very sick daddy who couldn\u2019t work and my Mama had to bring in the income for our little family of three (older siblings had married and left the nest). I never heard her COMPLAIN about her \u201clot in life\u201d. She was a PRAISER \u2013 not a COMPLAINER. I recall hearing her singing and praying in the midst of our circumstances.<\/p>\n

My husband and I were Zig Ziglar junkies which meant we pursued optimism and gratitude \u2013 so much so that our little girl at age 6 would correct someone who said \u201cThat scared me to death!\u201d She\u2019d say, \u201cNo, it scared you to life!\u201d She did get a little annoying to those who didn\u2019t want a 6-year old correcting them, but, no doubt, her message was clear. Debbie Downers and anyone who talks negatively, even casually, and complains about their present circumstances and challenges will determine how long they\u2019ll get to stay right there, and, if they keep it up, they’ll even get to go around the same mountain again and again and again! Remember the Israelites being stuck wandering in the wilderness for 40 years — that should have taken them only 11 days (Deuteronomy 1:2)? They complained….and remained! <\/p>\n

Maybe your environment was and is different than mine was and today, you feel like you\u2019re in a desert of defeat, worry and fear. Maybe it feels like you\u2019re getting nowhere fast. We can do something to help change that. Could it possibly be that the stalemate has much to do with negative thinking and speaking. Just maybe you’ve remained because you\u2019ve complained way more than you praised God for the blessings you do have. Not that I\u2019m suggesting that we be a \u201cPollyanna\u201d or \u201cLittle Mary Sunshine\u201d all the time, but I am suggesting that the more we catch ourselves when we\u2019re complaining, to find ways to be praising instead, the more we\u2019ll be blessed. <\/p>\n

I listened to an audio book about an Episcopalian Priest who had a habit of \u201csighing and moaning\u201d all the time. Rather than speaking negatively, he just moaned and those moans indicated his complaints. To create a better atmosphere of praising instead of complaining, he set up for himself a \u201cSighing\/Moaning\u201d jar. Every time he sighed, he\u2019d have to add a dollar to the jar. I laughed out loud when he was up to $11 in a short period of time. He recognized that even his thoughts were complaining so he did something about it. <\/p>\n

Maybe it\u2019s time we do something about it, too! Here\u2019s our options: We COMPLAIN. We remain. We PRAISE. We are raised! When our PRAISES go UP, the blessings come down.
\n#COMPLAIN…and remain! OR #PRAISE….and be raised!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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