The Good Guys Wear White Hats
Lately I’ve been honing in on being a Good Samaritan or in Texas, we would say “being one of the good guys that wear white hats”. My Texas nephew is one of those good guys. This is Robert and Becky Wheat. I stay amused with following him on Facebook. He proudly wears his white hat most all the time except when he’s in church – and he’s in church a lot, as a beloved Texas Baptist pastor. And, he is always finding great photo opportunities to spot the hat in a location that makes for a hilarious and/or meaningful FB post. I had a great time scrolling through his FB timeline to snatch some of his photos. You’ll see wit and his passion for Christ in them. He is definitely one of those good guys that wears a white hat — he is compassionate, kind, sensitive and is quick to meet the needs of others. I’m so proud of him and his love for Christ, his heart for sharing the Good News, as well as being an incredible role model for others. He makes me want to get a white hat – if that could help!
I remember the good ole’ days when good manners, courtesy, politeness, compassion, concern for each other, patriotism, kindness, respectfulness, graciousness, consideration, and thoughtfulness were the norm. In reality, all those qualities are still right here. It’s easy to recognize those who have those qualities. They may not (literally) wear white hats, but they are those white-hat-kind-of-people out there. Let’s face it — times really haven’t changed that much because there were always those who leaned toward the wild side — the mean, ornery, and disrespectful side — those who could find something negative in every situation, instead of looking for, finding the good and even BEING the good.
Deep inside of most everyone is a “white-hat-wearing” loving and kind somebody. They came into this world “wearing a white hat” — well, sort of. They were pure and precious. I often wonder what happened to those pure and precious babies who eventually lost their “white hats”? What is in their past that created someone so opposite — their upbringing, their loss of a value system, their choice of friends? What was it that changed them from “loving God, respectfully loving others and living with kindness and honor”? It’s hard to believe how polar opposite we can be. Upbeat, celebratory and happy or rivalry, nasty, and bitter. I get that people are afraid, angered, upset, and confused about this world we live in, but we can change “our little world” if we want to.
We can lean in closer to God Who can change us and make us new. He is delighted to give out “white hats” to His kids. We can be devoted followers of Christ Who replace our meanness for kindness and our ugly talk to love talk. My Mama said it best, “If you can’t say something nice, don’t say anything at all!”
My Mama and Mother Teresa had a lot in common when it comes to loving and caring. Here’s the way Mother Teresa put it: “People are often unreasonable and self-centered. Forgive them anyway. If you are kind, people may accuse you of ulterior motives. Be kind anyway. If you are honest, people may cheat you. Be honest anyway. If you find happiness, people may be jealous. Be happy anyway. The good you do today may be forgotten tomorrow. Do good anyway. Give the world the best you have and it may never be enough. Give your best anyway. For you see, in the end, it is between you and God. It was never between you and them anyway.” ― Mother Teresa
You, know, I think Mother Teresa must have owned a white cowgirl hat because she sure did talk the talk and walk the walk that most of those folks in white hats seem to do. I’m thinking I need to go on a shopping spree for a white hat!
