Cry Babies Gotta’ Cry
Yesterday, I heard a man telling about how easy it is for him to cry these days — over the birth of a baby, the great love he has for his wife, a touching movie, and the love He has for God and His tender mercies. He said he could cry at the “drop of a hat”. He called himself “emotionally incontinent”! LOL!
I felt pretty strong that I could hold it together at my grandson’s wedding a couple of weeks ago, UNTIL, I saw his lips quivering in efforts to hold back his tears when he saw his beautiful bride coming down the aisle. I cried when I witnessed the deep passion and love he has for her. I’ll admit it, I love it when I see a strong, manly guy, have such tender emotions that he is unafraid to shed some tears.
The Gospel writers didn’t feel that tears were a threat to either the manhood or Godhood of Christ when they recorded that “Jesus wept.”
It seems the longer I live, the easier it is for me to tear up — not to mention weddings, birthday parties, my grandkids accomplishments, my godson’s hugs and kisses, viral videos about children and animals being rescued, or the baby announcement to the soon-to-be grandparents. Of late, those tears have a lot to do with my soon-to-say “good-bye” to friends and family as I make my move to Texas.
But, what makes me tear up and be “emotionally incontinent” the most, is when I watch someone who has had a miserable life of mental and physical abuse and their existence was hell-on-earth OR someone who WAS the abuser, the thief, the alcoholic, the liar, the cheat, the selfish — but then GRACE encountered them face-to-face in the Person of Jesus Christ. Their OLD became NEW, their messes became their message, their heartbreaks became their story, their tests became their testimony, their sadness was turned to gladness and their mourning became joy. I’ll take those tears and I’ll be emotionally incontinent anyday because there are just some tears that can’t help but flow in gratitude to our God of mercy and grace!
And if tears are great for the soul — here’s some bonus benefits for the body:
~ Crying Relieves Stress
~ Crying Lowers Blood Pressure
~ Tears Remove Toxins
~ Tears Reduces Manganese
So, the next time we feel those tears welling up, let’s just go ahead and be “emotionally incontinent” and let the tears flow!!!