Happy Father’s Day – The Kids are Watching so Please — Step it Up!

Yes! It’s Father’s Day — for all remarkable, loving, guiding, mentoring and cheering dads and men who show up as role models for those in your sphere of influence. That includes my dear Carl and our sons, Ryan Wuerch, Larry Wallace and Terrell Gates!

We’re sure to hear a Father’s Dad message at our churches today. Let’s be honest — Father’s Day sermons usually go something like this:

“King David was a man after God’s own heart!” True. But… can we also talk about the fact that he wasn’t exactly “Dad of the Year”?

David wrote beautiful psalms and slayed giants, but when it came to his kids, he went silent. He didn’t speak up when he should have, didn’t correct, mentor, or guide when it mattered most. It’s a sobering reminder to be intentional about victories at home.

And then there’s Adam — the first father. We’re still cleaning up that apple incident, and don’t get me started on the Cain and Abel backyard barbecue gone terribly wrong. Where was Dad? Probably over in the fig leaves section, acting like nothing happened.

David slayed giants — but dropped the ball at home. Adam named animals… but missed the sibling fight of the century.

But before we roll our eyes at ancient fathers, let’s ask: “What kind of legacy are fathers leaving today?”

Dads, we ALL need you. Not just to mow lawns or lift heavy things (though we appreciate that too), but to show up — spiritually, emotionally, consistently. Our children don’t need perfection. They need your presence.

They need you to speak life when the world tears them down.
To show up in the stands, even if it’s just tee-ball.
To be their safe place, their steady hand, their example of grace and grit.

Proverbs 20:7 says, “The righteous man walks in his integrity; his children are blessed after him.” Dads, your integrity is your legacy.

This Father’s Day, don’t settle for “good enough.” Step up. Speak out. Be the kind of father that future generations will thank God for.

And hey, if you ever feel like you’ve messed up — remember this: God is the ultimate Father, full of mercy and fresh starts.

Dads, you may not get a parade today, but your legacy will outlive you!

Happy Father’s Day to the real MVPs: Mentors, Visionaries, Protectors. Your good and loving influence can last a lifetime and beyond!

Dads, you may not get a parade today, but your legacy will outlive you!
Happy Father’s Day to the real MVPs: Mentors, Visionaries, and Protectors.