It Doesn’t Have to Be My Way!

Day 195 of Photo Inspirations – It Doesn’t Have to Be My Way!
Remember Frank Sinatra singing “I did it my way”? The song was about a man fondly looking back on a life lived on his own terms.  But, is that the way WE want to live?

I attended a meeting on Thursday where the speaker handed out empty toilet paper rolls to each of us. She asked: “Have you ever had a dispute with your husband about the RIGHT way to hang a toilet paper roll?  And, if you weren’t in agreement, did you correct it each time that he’d put it in different from the way you thought it should be?  Did it frustrate you because it just wasn’t right or it just wasn’t YOUR WAY?  She said God had been speaking to her about having to have it HER WAY, so, on purpose, she has been leaving it the way her husband put it on.  She realized “It doesn’t have to be MY WAY all the time. She instructed us to write on our rolls…. “It doesn’t have to be MY WAY!”

What a powerful object lesson! Point well taken.  It’s such an erroneous belief that OUR WAY is the best way of doing things and then insisting others agree with us.  There are those who seem to have taken a life course called, “How To Be Absolutely Sure of Everything”!  And, honestly, in the light of eternity and what matters most, does it really matter?  Wanting and insisting on getting our way is a set up for unhappiness, and a lot of disagreements with others.  We rationalize that THEY just need to change.

It’s part of being human to want to have our way. We all have a touch of the need to be right. We all have areas where we believe that we know better than others. As we learn to let go of the need to have it OUR WAY, the more energy we’ll have to spend on things that REALLY ARE important.

It’s time to ask ourselves, “Do I want to be right or do I want to be happy?  Do I want to get my way, or do I want to feel closeness with others?”  Who wants to be a know-it-all, when there’s only one KNOW-IT-ALL?   He is Father God.  Instead of singing Frank’s “I DID IT MY WAY”, why not be singing…. “I did it God’s way!” And when we do it God’s way…..in humility and love…..it WILL BE His way….and the BEST WAY!

“Blessed is everyone who fears the Lord, who walks in HIS WAYS.” Psalm 128:1
 “…be submissive to one another, and be clothed with humility, for ‘God resists the proud, but gives grace to the HUMBLE.”  1 Peter 5:5