Love, Leadership, and Turning the Tide

November 22, 1963 – I remember that date well. Do you? For me, it’s crystal clear. I was sitting in my 10th-grade Geometry class in my hometown of Dallas, Texas. Our principal’s voice over the P.A. system still echoes in my heart: “Our President has been shot—let us pray.” Later, we would hear: “Our President has died.”

I can still see the expressions on my classmates’ faces, the shock, the disbelief, and the deep sense of loss. President John F. Kennedy’s assassination shook not only our nation but the world.

He was a leader who dared us to dream big, to “ask not what your country can do for you—ask what you can do for your country.” From establishing the Peace Corps to the NAVY Seals and Green Berets, his legacy is woven into the fabric of our nation’s story. He inspired a generation to step into public service, face challenges head-on, and believe in the power of collective good.

Today, as I reflect on that moment and the division we see in our nation, I am reminded of another pivotal moment: President Elect Trump’s near-death experience earlier this year. Social media exploded with vile remarks, some even wishing for his demise. My heart breaks at how far we’ve drifted from honoring one another. Disagreements are inevitable, but respect is a choice.

The Bible says in Romans 12:10, “Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves.” No matter our political leanings, we are called to something higher — something better. If Kennedy’s call to service and sacrifice resonated with a generation, can we not echo that today?

Instead of division, let’s choose love. Instead of hateful words, let’s speak life. Our leaders, past and present, have been entrusted with the heavy mantle of guiding this nation. Whether they succeed or fail, they are human, just like us. And as humans, we are all in desperate need of grace.

The same God who brought healing and hope out of tragedy in 1963 is still working today. He can take the ashes of division and turn them into beauty. Let us honor not just the legacies of leaders like Kennedy but the calling we all share: to love one another as Christ loves us.

So, where were you on November 22, 1963? And more importantly, where are you now? Are your words and actions building bridges or tearing them down? Let us live with the same hope and determination to make a difference — not just for our country but for God’s kingdom.