Made to Last Forever
Jack Silvey, husband, of my dear friend, Jo Silvey, graduated to heaven yesterday. We knew this day was close because Jack has been ill for quite some time, but nevertheless when the time comes, we still experience the sudden jolt of separation from the one whom we have loved, adored, celebrated, served, made memories with, and dreamed with. So many emotions wrapped up in theses times: gladness/sadness, remembering/forgetting, rejoicing/grieving, funeral/graveside, keep their things/give away things, make decisions quick/slow, and with King Solomon we live his words from Ecclesiastes 3: There’s “a time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance”……. and oh, so many more highs and lows. From this widow’s first hand experience to Jo and others, I can tell you, it’s a roller coaster ride of emotions. I know what it means to watch my loved one in so much pain; I know what it is for my loved one to “go home”; I know what it is to have to deal with financial issues; I know what it is to not know what tomorrow holds. But I can tell you the opportunity will soon be given to realize “My loved one is gone….but I’m not. I’m still here, so God isn’t finished with me yet. Now it’s time to run MY RACE strong to the Finish Line!”
One of the resource books I’m reading during my one month hiatus with God, is Rick Warren’s “The Purpose Driven Life”. How applicable was the chapter, “Made to Last Forever” that was in my readings, yesterday. Listen to this excerpt: “This life is not all there is. Life on earth is just the dress rehearsal before the real production. You will spend far more time on on the other side of death — in eternity — than you will here. Earth is the staging area, the preschool, the tryout for your life in eternity. It is the practice workout before the actual game; the warm-up lap before the race begins. This life is preparation for the next. The Bible says, “No mere man has ever seen, heard or even imagined what wonderful things God has ready for those who love the Lord.” 1 Corinthians 2:9. If you have a relationship with God through Jesus, you don’t need to fear death. It is the door to eternity. It will be the last hour of your time on earth, but it won’t be the last of you. Rather than being the end of your life, it will be your birthday into eternal life. Years ago a popular slogan encouraged people to live each day as “the first day of the rest of your life.” Actually, it would be wiser to live each day as if it were the last day of your life. Matthew Henry said, “It ought to be the business of every day to prepare for our final day.”
With those words, I’d like to congratulate my friend, Jack Silvey, because his bags were packed, he was prepared and when his name was called, he walked through that door to eternity. As I was my sweetheart’s midwife pushing him through that door, so was Jo as she watched him go home yesterday. Here’s the best news of all…..we didn’t say “Good bye, Jack”; we just said, “See ya’ later”, because as we live each day as if it were our last…..then we’ll walk through that door to our HOME SWEET HOME, too, and the bands will be playing, choirs will be singing and all our beloved loved ones will be on the sidelines cheering for us loud and strong as we cross our Finish Line. In the meantime, let’s give our best to God in each day on this side of heaven while we live with eternity in our hearts. I intend to finish strong right along with You and You and You! See ya’ later!