Oh Tidings of Comfort and Joy

This time of year, my heart always turns to those spending their first Christmas without a loved one. While the world sings “Joy to the World” and the air rings with goodwill and glad tidings, I know not everyone feels like celebrating. For some, the holidays bring a longing to look past the tinsel and into the “rear-view mirror.” I know this because I’ve been there.

I was just 15 when my sweet daddy, Roscoe Owen Wheat, passed into heaven on December 17, 1964. That day is etched in my memory. I came home from school to find him lying on my bed — a place he never napped. “Daddy, are you okay?” I asked. He looked at me and softly said, “I’m okay, Baby. I’m just resting.”

But I knew. I ran for help, but by the time we returned, he was gone. My daddy’s last words were true, though — he really was okay! He was resting in the arms of Jesus.

That Christmas wasn’t easy. Gifts already wrapped — like the pajamas and slippers Mom had bought for him — were unwrapped with tears. It was just Mom and me now.

I understand the deep ache of an empty chair, the memories that surface more vividly during this tender season, and the yearning to be with those who have gone before us.

But here’s what brings me comfort: my daddy isn’t celebrating Christmas with Baby Jesus. No, he is with the King of Kings and Lord of Lords! Heaven holds the kind of peace, love, and joy that never fades. What could be better than a Christmas there?

If you’re missing someone this year, let your heart be encouraged. You are not alone. God is near, wrapping you in His love. “Do not be afraid,” He whispers. “I give you peace, comfort, joy, and a hope that will not disappoint.”

Wherever you find yourself this Christmas — whether in a house full of family, a quiet apartment, or far from home — remember what matters most. Emmanuel. God with us. That baby in the manger holds the promise of eternity, a future reunion, and comfort that goes beyond words.

So breathe in the truth this season: He is here. He is with you. And He is enough. God bless you, my dear friends, with His comfort and joy!