Selective Hearing Comes in Handy
My iPhone must have selective hearing. I’ll be audibly texting a message and the message comes out not anything like I said. My text message to my sister was supposed to start out “Hi sweet sis!” But, it sent “Hi, sweet the ass.” She replied “This is too funny. Read your text 4th word.” I have GOT to start reading my texts before I hit the SEND icon!!
My word(s) for today is SELECTIVE HEARING – one possesses this quality when they hear only what they would like to hear. Selective hearing is also known as hearing loss by attention. It affects many people and refers to the unconscious blocking out of sounds while engaged in another stimulating activity. For example, missing the sound of a telephone ringing because of focusing on a TV show.
There are times when I block out what someone is saying because I’m so busy with what I’M saying that I don’t hear what needs to be heard. I was at a conference last weekend and I was so busy in conversation that I failed to hear someone saying grace for our meal. My Selective Hearing was hearing my words, not someone else’s.
Selective hearing loss is not the result of one noise making another inaudible, but a choice by the brain to focus on one stimulus over another. For example: Mom: “Jimmy, clean up your room and them you can go to the movies.” Jimmy: “Sweet! I can go to the movies!” Mom: “AFTER YOU CLEAN YOUR ROOM!” Jimmy: “What? You never said I had to clean my room” Mom: “I swear, you have selective hearing!”
Has your spouse, child or someone else asked you about something they had told you, and you don’t even remember them asking the question? At that moment they asked, apparently you had selective hearing and it didn’t SELECT that conversation. Indeed our children have selective hearing. We can call them and call them, and they don’t respond, but if we say “Ice Cream”, they’ll come running. We, also, have selective hearing. We listen to what we love. God is sending us messages all the time, but we’re not listening well. We’re distracted or preoccupied or just maybe, we don’t even want to listen.
Our Heavenly Father communicates with us all the time through His Word, His gentle nudges, signs and feelings, others speaking on His behalf and so many other ways. God is communicating with us all the time. He wants us, like we want our kids, to LISTEN WELL!”
Being a good listener is being present in the moments. Consciously avoiding distractions and honoring that one that is speaking to us. Proverbs 4:20 says “My child, pay attention to what I say. Listen carefully to my words.” Such selective hearing is simply paying attention. God is speaking to us. Others are speaking to us. And when we pay attention and are tuned in to the Master’s frequency, and when we set aside all distractions, we’ll hear! …When we do, we’ll be listening WELL and SELECTING our hearing to hearing God’s voice..