This is Where the Best of Me Came From
My sweet Mom, Edna Pearl Wheat, is 107 years old today and she’s having the time of her “forever after” life in heaven. These photos are of her and my granddaughter, Alexia Wallace, 15 years ago. She was in her element when she was holding the babies. I love the “before” and “after” of Alexia getting hold of that bottle. LOL!
I treasure photos like this because it reminds me of where the best of me came from. If ever there was an angel on earth, it was her. She was my mentor, role model and everything a mother should be. She selflessly gave: “Just give me the fried chicken neck — that’s good enough for me.” She always forgave — “It’s okay. God forgives me all the time. I sure can forgive you.” She unconditionally loved: “It’s okay that they (my siblings that lived in other states) don’t write or call me much. I love and pray for them anyway.” Her integrity and honesty were of utmost importance to her. I’ll never forget the day as a tiny tot that I saw a package of gum on the floor in the store and put it in my pocket. I reasoned that “if it’s on the floor, it’s okay to have it”. When she found it in my pocket, she marched me back into the store to admit my wrong-doing. That incident and lesson stuck with me like glue.
She gave me boundaries that worked: “Let your conscience be your guide.” It was those words that guided me when I was choosing right or wrong. She rarely missed a church service — Wednesday night, Friday prayer meeting, women’s meetings, Sunday School AND church — twice on Sunday. She sacrificed her own needs for my needs. She demonstrated undaunted faith and determination in the toughest of times when my dad was so sick and when our finances were so meager. I heard her praying for me and my siblings from her bedroom. She was the most tender, kind-hearted, loving, gentle, caring and pure woman I have ever known. She was my hero, and to this day, she remains my hero. Her example made me a better me.
The reason why I’m spotlighting her today is to emphasize it’s not the things, treasures, inheritance or jewelry that matter. She had very few tangible things to leave us. Oh, but what she left us exceeded anything tangible. She left a legacy that money could never buy. Her influence on me caused me to be honest, to love and care passionately, to put my faith in God during the best and worst of times, to give and to suck it up when I’ve been hurt or offended, to trust in God’s plans for my life and to pass on something so much more than the things that can be bought.
I intend to leave my children the very best of me……and the very best of me is my precious mother’s example. What are those things that you’ll leave to your children and grandchildren? “Her children rise up, and call her blessed….” Proverbs 31:28
Happy Birthday, sweet Mom!