Untying the Apron Strings

Oh me! I’ve had many aprons and untying them wasn’t always easy — especially when those strings were wrapped around those I loved the most.

The phrase “untying the apron strings” is often about our children and grandchildren and having to release our grip on them as they step into adulthood. ADULTHOOD? How can it be? It seems like yesterday when I was planning treasure hunts, birthday parties, the new school year, the sports activities, the talent shows, the overnights at our place. Oh, what joys and delights!

As I prepare to attend the high school graduations of two cherished grandchildren (the two youngest and no more after this — sigh), a wave of emotions washes over me. There’s pride, of course, but also a tinge of wimpiness in me. (Get over it, Donna, and untie those apron strings!)

Oh, I know it’s time to let go and let God pave the way for those we love so much — “Oh the plans I have for you, says the Lord, plans to prosper you and not harm you – to give you a future and a hope!” Jeremiah 29:11

Aw! Therein lies the answer. Not just untying the apron strings but letting go and letting God take over their future. It’s a reminder that growth often requires release.

And while the mamas AND the grandmamas may be reaching for tissues, I, for one, will be chill and confident that my/our best days are ahead as we watch them become passionate, loving, caring and devoted adults that God will oversee and guide.

Letting go isn’t about loss; it’s about making space — for growth, for new experiences, for the unexpected joys that await when we release our grip on the past. It’s about trusting that, just as a butterfly emerges in its own time, so will we! Our loved ones will find their wings to go where God calls them to go! And so will you and me!

So, here’s to untying those apron strings, whether they’re wrapped around people, places, or things. Here’s to embracing change with grace, humor, and a heart open to the adventures ahead. And here’s to the gentle reminder that sometimes, the most profound growth comes when we simply let go.