What Does Your Book of Influence Look Like?

Are you an INFLUENCER to those around you…..and what does that “influence” look like? Does it influence others to be better, act better and live better lives?

Here’s a way to measure: We go throughout our day and people get to know us and they see how we treat those around us….from our children, to our spouse, to our co-workers, to the cashier at a store — we’re being watched in how we act (and react) in situations of calm, as well as those of stress. Do we act entitled or are we kind, generous and compassionate, whether we focus on THEM and give them our undivided attention (put down those cell phones!). And also….if we’re meeting someone for a lunch or appointment, are we showing up on time? Do we respect the time of others? All of that stuff matters…..and it speaks volumes.

Abraham Lincoln noted that “actions speak louder than words.” Even his words, among the most eloquent in political history, would not have been effective if his life had contradicted his words. We don’t have to be high profile, in the spotlight, or in a noteworthy position, but we do have to live in such a way that our life illustrates our faith. And our faith is best spoken by our actions.

Excellence is a biblical imperative: “And you yourself must be an example to them by doing good works of every kind. Let everything you do reflect the integrity and seriousness of your teaching.” (Titus 2:7)

Little and big eyes are watching us daily. Our lives represent a BOOK of manners, courtesy, honor, integrity and character that others need to see and become. What does your book look like?