What Kind of Influencer Are You?

A few days ago my daughter told me about an unfortunate incident at the tennis courts in their community. A young man was “hogging” one of the courts and refused to allow other residents in the area to play. Typically, there is a one-hour game play, and when others are waiting for the court, the players let others take their place after an hour. Not in the case of this young man. He was adamant that he didn’t have to quit, and his nasty attitude was seen by many people wanting to play. Before long, the father of that young man showed up and, likewise, his attitude was even more offensive than the son’s. Obviously, the young man was influenced by his disagreeable father. Like father — like son.

Let’s think about what kind of an INFLUENCER we are to those around us. Do we influence others to be better, act better and live better lives by the way they see us living ours?

Here’s a way we can measure: We go throughout our day and people get to know us and they see how we treat those around us….from our children, to our spouse, to our co-workers, to the cashier at a store — we’re being watched in how we act (and react) in situations of calm, as well as those of stress. Do we act entitled or are we kind, generous and compassionate, whether we focus on THEM and give them our undivided attention (put down those cell phones!), or not. And also….if we’re meeting someone for a lunch or appointment, are we showing up on time? Do we respect the time of others? All of that life example matters…..and it speaks volumes.
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Abraham Lincoln noted that “actions speak louder than words.” Even his words, among the most eloquent in political history, would not have been effective if his life had contradicted his words. We don’t have to be high profile, in the spotlight, or in a noteworthy position, but we do have to live in such a way that our life illustrates our faith. And our faith is best spoken by our actions.

Excellence is a biblical imperative: “And you, yourself, must be an example to them by doing good works of every kind. Let everything you do reflect the integrity and seriousness of your teaching.” (Titus 2:7)

Little and big eyes are watching us daily. Our lives represent a BOOK of manners, courtesy, honor, integrity and character that others need to see and become. What does your book look like?