Patience is a Virtue
Patience is a Virtue
I saw this Instagram post and photo a few days ago and I was inspired — so much so that I’m posting about it here today.
“It all started with one baby camel. Three years later, globe-trotting adventure photographer Allan Dixon continues to take selfies with wildlife, sometimes relaxing with them for hours before a photo is taken. “Patience is key in getting so close,” Allan explains. “I think they can sense how I feel and know I have no desire to harm them. ‘You have to be still, lie down, gain their trust in their environment for a while. Most of the time they’re more scared of you than you are of them.’ Through patience and care, he’s managed to take some of the best animal selfies the world has ever seen.
His words resonated with me: “Patience is key in getting so close” and “You have to be still, lie down, gain their trust in their environment.” This photographer learned the art of patience and it provided him award winning photos and notoriety. Imagine the winning conversations and situations that we could achieve by exercising that amazing quality of patience.
Allan “took the time” to win over those animals. And that time and patience paid off when it was “selfie photo time”.
In this culture we live in today, we’re too busy to really nurture our relationships. We give little time for real conversations with people. It’s either an email or a text message. We rarely have face to face or real voice to voice interactions. We’re just too impatient to spend quality time together. There are so many distractions from building true relationships. I can imagine that Allan has his phone turned off when he’s patiently gaining the trust of those animals.
Maybe we’re not into selfies with animals, but what about taking the time and patience to slow down from the hustle and bustle of “life” to patiently wait on God and patiently take time with His kids — valuing the people in our lives and gaining their trust? Jesus so profoundly spoke about loving God and loving others. Mark 12:30-31 “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength. The second is this: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ There is no commandment greater than these.” How can you love someone without spending time with them?
Aren’t there people who need our love and attention — people we need to spend quality time with and really nurture a relationship with in order to gain their trust? Perhaps we’d have to have a lot of patience with them because they may just not be as mature or wise or “cool” as we are, but if we give them time and gain their trust, we just may become the best friend they’ve been looking for, and who knows? They may become the best friend we’ve been praying for. And when we figure that out…..we can spend time taking selfies with each other. Surely it will be a picture that’s worth a thousand words.