Safe in the Eye of the Storm
Yesterday, I posted about BEING the eye of the storm and today I’m taking it a notch up. Oftentimes, no matter the peace and calm we represent or the peace and calm we are in, still unexpected stuff happens which really reveals whether we’re just talking the talk, or actually walking the walk! Eleanor Roosevelt quoted these words to a friend: “A woman (my add: or man) is like a tea bag; you never know how strong it is until it’s in hot water.”
Yesterday, Friday, July 28, 2017, 11:45 am — I was on a mission to return a swim suit to Dillard’s that I didn’t use on my Mexico trip. When I exited the busy, under-construction Dallas Tollway, a car was coming fast toward me on the side road so I had to slow to a stop to let her go on by. That’s when the car behind me collided into the rear end of my car. We moved to a parking lot nearby and the young man who hit me was yelling all kinds of expletives and was pacing in a rage. My car had minor damage, but his was not drivable. He had just purchased the car 3 weeks earlier. I was calm and thankful the airbag in my car didn’t deploy, and that neither of us were hurt.
I called Larry and he and Staci insisted on coming to me for moral support. Before long, the young man’s best friend and former employee of the Law Department of Geico Car Insurance showed up and calmed the storm in his buddy and was equally reassuring to me that his buddy was a great guy (best friends since age 6), from a great family and still lives with his parents. My heart went out to the young man — just 3 weeks in his beautiful new car and now having to deal with this inconvenience.
Here’s what came about. Insurance information was exchanged, police showed up and wrote up the report and issued the young man a citation for going so fast he couldn’t stop behind me. Staci, in her usual fashion, showed the young man the hail damage on his car and said “Be sure to wrap that hail damage into the repairs” — “All things work together for good to those who love God” (Romans 8:28) — if he didn’t love God before, maybe this accident represents the turning point for him. Both Larry and Staci, and myself, represented compassion and care for the young man. No one was hurt. No doubt the young man will be a wiser and better driver hereafter. The friend of the driver kept saying “Thank you for being so thoughtful. I’ve seen so many upset drivers in situations like this and you are being so kind to him.” I told him “Stuff happens and the way we handle ‘stuff’ is what shows up at times like this.” When we departed, I hugged both young men and expressed my best wishes to both.
Who knew that when I posted yesterday about being “the EYE of the storm” in situations, that the same day I’d be putting to practice what I had preached. The fact is just a couple of months ago, I was in that young man’s shoes, when I ran into the back of a car. Yes, accidents happen. That’s why they’re called “accidents”. That same peace enveloped me then, too.
The calmness that lives in me isn’t conjured up just for hard times. It’s there 24/7. When we abide in THE ONE, Who is our peace at ALL TIMES, no matter what we encounter, we can rest assured our tea bags will ooze out God’s love and God’s peace in the midst of the storm. I wish you that PEACE today. I give you Jesus today — because “He’s the peace that passes all understanding.” Philippians 4:7